Sex Positions

I thought my blog should not be just about my sex experience stories, so I wanted to talk about something else. Gay sex mostly revolve around anal sex. Although a substantial proportion of us do not perform anal sex, it is like a necessity to most others. This is not surprising, given the intensity of anal sex and how varied it is. So which anal sex position do you like best ?

1. Missionary style

This is the most commonly used style because it's one of the most intimate one. This style allows for a lot of eye contact and bodily contact during sex.

There are a lot of variations in this style, depending on the bottom's legs position. But basically the bottom lies down and spreads his legs open while the top positions himself. Because the bottom's ass position is lower than the top's cock position, it's better to place a pillow under the bottom's bum for easier entry. Another way around this is for the bottom to lie next to the bed edge and the top enters
while standing next to the bed.

While the fucking is in action, the top can lean forward to kiss. The bottom has free access to the top's body and nipples and vice versa. Looking at each other's blissful expression is a high turn on too. And especially for the top, he gets to see his cock going in and out of the ass. Top with cock curving upward should definitely do this position as his cock can reach the bottom's prostate easily. Top with straight cock should still go for this position as the angle of fucking can be adjusted easily by lifting up or down the bottom's ass.

The disadvantage of this position is that the penetration is generally not so deep especially for bottoms with meaty bum. There is a lack of control for the bottom as well.

My personal take : I definitely like this position but it's not my first take when I'm the top because I prefer deeper penetration. But when I'm the bottom, this is the best position for me because the top's cock can just rub against my prostate wall without poking at the wall. Anything deeper will be painful because of the poking effect.

2. Doggy style

This is another very common style used after the missionary. It is basically a rear entry position, like what our most loyal companions do. The bottom will  kneel on all four, facing away from the top. Unlike the missionary, the bottom's ass is of comparable position with the top's cock. This makes doggy style one of the easiest style for entry.

The doggy style is very exciting and arousing. It allows for a lot more wilder sex. The top is not

obstructed by the bottom's legs while the bottom can control the angle and depth of fuck. The bottom can even take full control by thrusting his ass while the top keeps still. This position is best suited for rough and hard pounding with short and fast strokes. The sound of the top's thigh clapping against the bottom's ass is a big turn on. Because of this, doggy style is often seen as showing dominance (imagine the top slapping the bottom's bum). Top with cock curving downward should definitely go for this position as the tip of his cock will rub against the bottom's prostate. Top with straight cock may still pleasure the bottom with this position if his cock is thick enough to stretch the ass passage and rub against the bottom's prostate.

The disadvantage of this position the restricted amount of possible intimacy. There's almost no eye contact except if the bottom turns his head as much as he can and this will exert fatigue on his neck. Kissing is possible but very difficult. The top has full access to the bottom's body and cock, but the bottom has no access to the top's body at all.

My personal take : This is the position for my maximum pleasure. But being a fair top, I need to assess the situation. If it's a wild sex scenario, I will pound the bottom mercilessly in doggy. If it's a passionate sex scenario, I will go for slow pounding in missionary. But when I'm being the bottom, this position is a big no no to me because the top's cock will just poke my prostate wall instead of rubbing against it.

3. Sitting/Riding style

The sitting/riding style is reputed to be the recommended style for beginner bottom. This is because the bottom is in (almost) full control of the entry and the fuck itself. Almost because the top still has a small margin of thrusting space. Here the top lies down while the bottom squat above the top, positioning the top's cock against the bottom's ass. Its is necessary for the bottom to hold the top's cock and guide it into his ass. Once the two met, a slight push or rocking will usually start the entry. For beginner bottom or bottom facing a large cock, he can pause intermittently to let his ass adjust to being stretched by the cock, making sure he take control of the speed and rhythm of entry. There are two main variants of this position. First is when the bottom facing the same direction with the top. Second is when the bottom facing away from the top. The two variants can be interchanged with relative ease, the bottom just needs to rotate his body. This makes sitting position very versatile and offer a lot more intimacy compared to doggy.

Another versatility aspect is the control of the fucking. The bottom can be in full control by moving his ass up and down while the top keeps still. The top can be in full control by moving his hips up and down while the bottom keeps some distance away and still. When the bottom squats, the penetration is deep. When the bottom kneels, the penetration is less deep. An absolutely hot sight is when the bottom with a large hard cock slapping against the top's abs when riding on his cock. This position is best performed on a (comfortable) sofa chair.

Because of its versatility, there's no major disadvantage of this position except the bottom's limping legs the next day probably.

My personal take : This is the perfect position for two extremes. One is a beginner bottom who needs to control the pace slowly. And another is a power bottom who needs to take full control of his own pleasure in being fucked.

4. Side-by-side style

 Side-by-side position is basically doggy position in 90 degrees rotation. Although this position still doesn't allow much eye contact and kissing, there's greater possibility for body contact. The depth of penetration can be controlled, making it another versatile system. Lift up the bottom legs and you get a deep fuck, fold sideways or rest down to lessen the depth. When the bottom's legs are down and kept together, the bums form a friction wall which can enhance the top's pleasure.

The disadvantage is that this position is among the hardest for initial entry. This is partly because the top's ability to thrust is lessen when done sideways. As a result, this position generally comes about as a morph of doggy position. Or when the bottom has accustomed to the fuck. Because of the top's position, he doesn't have much space to adjust his fucking angle and position. Thus when it comes to hitting the prostate, it's either you get it, or you miss it.

My personal take : I seldom use this style because of the hit or miss thing. I won't normally initiate this position unless the bottom asks for it. When he does that, it's likely that he knows that the side position is a hit for him.

5. Tree style

Tree position is basically a variation of missionary so it shares a lot of aspects from that style. It can start of from missionary, with the bottom lift up one of his leg and rest against the top body or held up by the top, and the other leg down. The top can then use the leg of the bottom to push himself inside and control the pelvic push during the fuck. The bottom's legs position also eliminates bum restraints, allowing the top to drill deeper. This position allows deep penetration so tops should be careful because it may be painful for the bottom.

My personal take : I love to alternate this style with the traditional missionary. Because of the deep penetration, most of my bottoms will be crazy with the pleasure. This style is also very versatile when alternating between rough and hard fuck and slow and steady fuck. But as stated earlier, some bottoms cannot take the deep penetration.

6. Flying style

The flying position is a variation of sitting position. It is almost impossible to start with this position so the pair has to start off with sitting. The top then hold the bottom's legs while the bottom hold on to the top and the top slowly lifts up the bottom's body entirely. This is done while keeping the top's cock inside the bottom's ass.

The great advantage is that it allows for uninhibited very deep penetration because of the gravity effect. The top is also in full control, leaving the bottom completely at his mercy. The disadvantage is that, the top must be strong enough to carry the bottom for an extended period of time. Thus this is normally done by a strong muscular top with a small built bottom. The top's cock size needs to be considerably long too otherwise it will easily slip out.

My personal take : This is almost like an acrobatic act and should be left to only when you're sure that you can handle the bottom otherwise the sex will turn into a disaster. When I do this, the extra pleasure goes to my bottom. The pleasure to me is just like any other sex positions.

There are a lot more variation of positions but the basics and the common ones are up there. So what do you think ?